On falling in love

“No one can fall in love if he is even partially satisfied with what he has or who he is. The experience of falling in love  originates in an extreme depression, an inability to find something that has value in everyday life.  The “symptom” of the predisposition to fall in love is not the conscious desire to do so, the intense desire to enrich our lives; it is the profound sense of being worthless and of having nothing that is valuable and the shame of not having it…  For this reason, falling in love occurs more frequently among young people, since they are profoundly uncertain, unsure of their worth, and often ashamed of themselves.  The same thing applies to people of other ages when they lose something in their lives– when their youth ends or when they start to grow old.”

— Frances Alberoni

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